Sometimes in life you have to be in people’s bad books to make their life easy. You know at your heart that you were helping them but you are the one who is blamed after all that you have done.
That is the time when you start questioning yourself. Were your intensions right? Was your way right? Are you a good person? You start doubting yourself. Even you see yourself as a culprit. 😦
Take a moment to think about it, a brief one, and analyse what went wrong.
But some people are bound to be blamed, like me.
No matter whatever we do, we are always wrong.
This incident will give you an example of what I am trying to say:
A and B had a fight over some issue. I was present too. B said something to A which hurt her deep in heart. I tried explaining A that B didn’t mean to hurt her.
B went away. I kept on explaining her so that she would spit her anger out. But instead she started blaming me and in that heating moment even my words hurt her.
When B came he blamed me. (Wow!! -_-) “You spoiled her mood in the morning. When you know she takes everything seriously, you should have kept quiet. Don’t you have this much sense,” said he.
Hmm, so now I am senseless. I wished to say, ” Oh me?? Was it really me who hurt her at the first place. I was trying to repair the damage you did. Don’t YOU have sense to have let go of the argument if you knew it would hurt her. I wouldn’t have had to intervene if you would’ve used your brain instead of your mouth at that moment.”
But as usual I kept mum. I felt miserable the following night. 😥 I questioned myself but then I realized even if they are blaming me, I have succeeded in my mission. If this is the price I have to pay for resolving their fight and giving them peace in their life, then be it. I am ready to pay any price for their happiness.
With this thought I smiled, felt peace, thanked god and asked for strength to be thoughtful in such situations and dozed off. 🙂
P.s. My piece of advice, “Before talking please connect your brain to your tongue.” You will thank me for this!! :p